WORLD INFORMATIONS: I (M23) see a potential red flag in young relationship (F21) I would like opinions on whether my anxiety is kicking into high gear or if this is something I should address or see as a potential red flag. I am in a rather young relationship with a woman I’ve known for years, but recently reconnected with around 4 months ago. Everything has been flawless. We have very similar views on life, no spats, we respect each other’s opinions in discussions. She is the ultimate girl next door, like the ones that only come around once or twice and you just know there is something about them. Within the last year she ended a long term relationship (3 years) that, from what I gathered, was extremely unhealthy. She says the time spent with me has been extremely rejuvenating and uplifting coming from her last one. A small issue, we are at very different points in our career. I’ve taken the long way round in college, currently working a 2nd shift position in a factory while attending school. She is graduating in December, working in a boutique clothing store in our college town. She frequently goes out after work with her coworkers. She invites me to spend time with them, but due to my work schedule I cannot during the week. I would typically have zero aversion to a SO spending time with coworkers, except for a specific one I’ll call Dan. Dan is one of the managers of the store and has made attempted passes at her in the past, trying to get her to go on dates, get her alone and things of that nature. She has expressed this to me verbatim. Last weekend she tells me she had been invited to go out with some coworkers but had carpooled to work and didn’t have her vehicle. I offered to let her stay with me after they got done hanging out. It turns out a few coworkers cancelled and it ended up being GF, Dan, and one other person. They spent the night at Dan’s apartment getting drunk and stoned. have no problem with the activities of the evening, I also partake. [Edit]: She did stay with me that evening and nothing out of the ordinary was spoken of. In conclusion: I am torn if I should have any emotional reaction to her action that night or if I am overreacting. TL:DR New girlfriend got drunk and high with a coworker who has attempted to date her in the past.