Encouragement from a Two Year long PornFree dude.

Fellas, I'm glad to see there's a lot of dudes trying to quit it, and I know it can be fuckin difficult. I was stuck in porn since I was 13 years old, fell right into the lesbian stuff (fuck you Viv Thomas) and by the time I woke up to how bad porn is for you, I was 25 and had been addicted for 12 straight years. Let me tell you, quitting was bad. It was really bad, so bad in fact I risked a relationship with the only woman I'd ever gotten close to. Thankfully, she not only didn't leave my dumb ass, she helped me. It still was not fucking easy.So okay, why am I telling you this? Because it's two years later, I'm still porn free, even to the point I see that shit pop up on my feed on Reddit and Twitter, and I don't need to jerk it. In fact sometimes I can even laugh at it, and realize how ridiculous it looks. If I can do it, you certainly can too.but I don't have a girl that's willing to help meNo, but you have 117k bros on here willing to help you out, and shame is the best way to motivate a man. I was so ashamed of how hurt my fiance was when she found out I'd lied to her, that was what it took to change me. Peer pressure does wonders for breaking bad habits.but dude I see tits and I gotta coom even though I've been TRYING.So break off the source. It's easy, don't look at Reddit, don't look at Twitter, or any other immediate source. In fact push yourself every day, one day at a time. It takes 60 days to form a habit, if you wanna jerk it to porn, hit the gym instead. Trade one habit for a better one.Here's a tip: masturbation isn't the end. People have been jerking it since we discovered fire, it's not the end of the fuckin world. The key is to UNDERSTAND why we do it, and I'll break it down for you:There are two main types of porn, heterosexual porn (man and woman) and lesbian porn. Yes there are other niche types, but those two are the building blocks on which the rest is built. So, which do you watch?Hetero So you still like the idea of dickin a girl, and you just decided to watch another guy do it. Which makes you a cuck. Put the dick back in your pants and save it for Miss Right. If that's all you watch you can skip the next part.Lesbian Aight so you said "Hey I don't wanna look at dicks, I'll just watch two women go at it", because you're a genius and figured you'd double it up. I thought so too, and my genius fuckin brain didn't connect the dots ten years later when I struggled with Autogynophylia, or AGP. (Check the stats between the surge in AGP/M2F transitions and the popularity of lesbian porn. The results should shock you).See, the brain connects the feeling of endorphins and pleasure to whatever its ingesting at the time of release. I.E. if you watch straight hetero porn, your brain still connects pleasure and the feeling of endorphins to your dick going inside a girl. Simple, right? That's why lesbian porn can be so fucking dangerous.Sure, you could approach it like "I'd bang them both its fine!" and you think it's fine and dandy. Meanwhile, your brain has no male to help you self insert, all it has is women moaning and shrieking. Eventually, your brain starts to connect pleasure to only women's orgasms, and that's where you're fuckin up big time. Soon, your brain starts wishin you had big tits to go on Twitch and make money, blah blah the snowball has already started.why are you telling me all thisI believe the best way to beat an enemy is to know an enemy. Beating porn is much, MUCH easier when you understand what is happening, specifically chemically in the brain. Will it make it happen automatically? Hell no, but it will give you an edge. Porn is the only drug on the planet that isn't controlled by the government or big pharma, and that's why it's both so easy and so dangerous.where are the words of encouragement bro?Right here: if you're gonna get your rocks off, do it for YOU, and for YOUR pleasure, not some bitch online who will never acknowledge your existence. Do it for yourself, get out there and notice the difference, and if you fuck up and watch porn again? Then you fucked up and watched porn again. Face it like a man and start your sobriety over. Its not the end if you make a mistake, but it's also up to you to learn from it.Get it kings. https://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/eg402a/encouragement_from_a_two_year_long_pornfree_dude/?utm_source=ifttt