The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) always and everywhere treated children with love and compassion. When they returned from the trip, the children ran to welcome them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) loved, loved, rode some with him, and even told his companions to ride others. And in that case they would return inside the city.
One author writes: In my parents' eyes, I did not care. When I was a kid, I was always insulted and humiliated. Don't share me in anything. And if I was doing something, I would put bugs in it. And they would insult me in front of friends. It makes me feel deprived and I think of myself as a worthless thing, and I am scared of making any decisions about myself. I don't trust myself. It does not matter to me in the presence of others.
It turns out that a child's humiliation, humiliation, destroys the child's personality. Parents who love their children should always be respectful of their children.
Because the child is also human and every human being loves himself. He wants others to appreciate it. Take care of her feelings. He appreciates it. Giving importance to a child's existence is one of the important roles of his training.
Children who have the respect they deserve are good and gentle. And avoid bad things to protect their place. And strive to do what is good in the eyes of others. Children also imitate children whose parents respect each other. Otherwise, children whose parents insult their children will not be harmed in their children's hearts. By which they become increasingly rebellious and disobedient. But unfortunately there are many parents who respect the respect of the child as a training. If they respect the children, they will be spoiled. And will not respect them. In fact, they crush the child's personality. And they create a feeling in their heart which is a great loss.
It is a pity that children are not respected in our society. They were not considered regular family members. They are not regularly invited. They are positioned at the bottom with a room door. They are not given regular plate spoons. There is no space for them in the car. Either stand up or sit in the parent's lap. They have no right to talk at the game. And they are not treated kindly in conversation. Thanks to them and Allah is not good. They are not consulted on household affairs. Religion Islam has given special attention to children. And ordered them to be respected.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Honor your children and train them well so that Allah may forgive you.
Child training is an important task. Every parent wants their child to be suppressed. It should be stressed that if the baby is loved, they get spoiled. Parents do their best to make the child respectful. Instead of creating self-esteem in the child, they honor themselves. As a child grows up, he gets used to it because his self-esteem dies. Anything he says doesn't affect him or make him feel bad. This habit becomes stronger with age.
Parents should not only treat their children with compassion but also make them feel special. Make it a habit to say it, rather than say it to you either. There are two benefits that a child can expect from everyone. And the other will address others in the same way. Over time, this habit will improve. Beating can create fear in your baby but no respect ....!
Children are never cruel, but innocent. Even the child born of the house of a tyrant and an unbeliever has a pure nature before reaching consciousness.
The Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Every child is born on nature Salima.
(Bukhari Sharif, Bob Alize)
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